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Post a comment. Neupadljiva, svima bliska, ali repetitivna. Objavljeno: The most common associations are those of male - female relations, pretending, cheating and not being honest. To a certain degree it is interpreted even as a demonstration of intelligence, wittiness and experience. On the other hand, in the dictionary of transactional analysis TA , the Games people play are usually subconscious and have a characteristic of being dishonest.
As Eric Bern, the founder of TA explains it - through playing we are faking and someone always wins. And the player is not only a narrator but also a participant whose role does not end happily. At a first glance many could deny playing Games probably due to the fact that people tend more to observe critically other people and the world around them than themselves but also because most of these behaviors is happening on a subconscious level.
Eric Bern's book Games people play has become a best-seller in the 60s and it is popular to this day probably exactly because when people look deep inside themselves and analyse their behavior they recognize a certain game. A game looks like a simple cutting from an individual's life, not so obvious, close to everybody but repetitive.
The games Bern talks about have typical, everyday life names which give you a peek into the fable - "Look what I made for you" , "If it weren't for you" , "A fuss" , "I only want to help you" , "Local wiseman" , "Dump me" , "Country girl" , "Now you'll pay, scum" and so on.
In the years after the publication Bern's inventory has grow so now we talk about Games played by junkies such as "Old junkie", "Stoned and proud" written by Zoran Milivojevic, MD, Games played by alcoholics Claude Steiner , Games played by your pet Bruce Fogle. Games can be played in any life context whether it is marriage, work place or the society as a whole and Bern also talks about the Games from the underground, Sex games, Good and Life games.
How it all began Games fit into the person's subconscious life plan also called script or scenario in transactional analysis. A child, based on its early experiences, makes a decision on what its scenario will be mostly thanks to its relationship with parents and it confirms it later on throughout life with its behavior and Games are one of them.
They are classified as one of the ways to structure time along with other possibilities such as rituals, retreat or work. And it is the structuring of time that can be one of the gains of playing Games. They can fill out 10 minutes or your entire life. Games always contain secret motivation and gain for the players. The player throws a bait, the other one is hooked that doesn't undermine his responsibility and there is a twist in communication that completely changes direction.
Transparent Game is at stake in the case of women who have made the script decision that "all men are unfaithful" , that "men can't be trusted" and so on. These women enter the relationships with men only partly but due to the existence of an inner conflict and the need to affirm the script there is a twist in which they find "evidence" and break the relationship off, concluding that they were, after all, right.
Intimacy Games, as a way of affirming an early opinion of self, seeking sense and filling time do not enable open, honest and authentic relations among people. It is easier to play games than to get involved in the risk of being hurt but to still gain the minimum of interaction and affirmation from others.
Bern states intimacy as an often intimidating but surely the most beautiful choice for structuring time without games or manipulations. All the people who have shared intimacy with someone in their experience are sure to testify about this contact with words of praise.
Everybody has the potential to establish intimacy and we are all born to succeed. But still, there are so many Losers and so many Games and people who aren't satisfied with their relationships and life. Still, it is good to know that change is possible and that its seed is in us. As Bern would say - maybe there isn't hope for human race but there is for some of its members.
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Post a comment. Neupadljiva, svima bliska, ali repetitivna. Objavljeno: The most common associations are those of male - female relations, pretending, cheating and not being honest. To a certain degree it is interpreted even as a demonstration of intelligence, wittiness and experience.
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